Where do I even begin? Last month for my birthday my sister and brother in law bought us all tickets to see a play in Kansas City. It wasn’t just any play though. This particular play starred Dyan Cannon.
Dyan Cannon. A name that is lost on so many.
Some may think, oh, she is that Lakers lady with the amazing hair. Some may remember how she was the beautiful Judge on Ally McBeal. Some may even remember her from Heaven can Wait or Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice with Natalie Wood. But, most will remember her from her turbulent marriage with Cary Grant.
Having seen nearly every single Cary Grant film and having read every single Cary Grant biography, this is where I was introduced to Dyan Cannon. She was one of the special ones, one of the lucky ones. She was married to Cary Grant. Not only was she married to him but also she bore him his only child. I wanted to know more about her. I started watching anything she was in. She was in a few films that I really enjoyed such as Heaven Can Wait and Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice, and some that I hate loved like 8 Heads in a Duffle Bag and Caddyshack II. She was and is beautiful and extremely talented but did I like her as a person? I was a bit on the fence about her after reading some articles about Cary Grant where people claimed that he was abusive to her and treated her like a child. Who was this woman to let people think these things about THEE Cary Grant? For years I admired her for her looks and talent but still just couldn’t get fully on board with her.
Then came “Dear Cary”
The week her book came out, my sister and I went to Lincoln and it was the first thing I bought. I was a little scared as I slowly opened it. Would she bash him or would I finally get an honest picture of their lives together? I took a deep breath and started reading it outside of Barnes and Noble as my sister continued to shop. I couldn’t wait another second. I had to know.
I never really understood their paring. For starters there was a 33-year age difference between them, and he had been married 3 times before. I just didn’t “get it.” But, Dyan’s book wove a tale of love. Real love. They had romance from the start. She fell for his charm (who wouldn’t) and he fell for her youthful spunk. For a while they were great together. Sadly Cary started to change the way she acted and dressed and turned her into someone else. It was a sad deal and they ended up getting divorced. Soon after their divorce she had a nervous breakdown. The details of that were heartbreaking. In the end though, she still loves him and respects him. He later remarried and was an amazing father to their daughter Jennifer. She too remarried but, again divorced and continued to raise their daughter after Cary passed away in 1986. What I found in this book was exactly what I wanted. A story of love that just didn’t last. A sad tale but, there was no cheating, no beating and no hints that Cary Grant was gay. I came out the other side with respect and newfound love for Dyan. Since then I have read a lot about her and followed her career a bit more closely. I also really recommend this book. It is a great read.
The Fox on the Fairway.
The New Theatre in Overland Park, KS played host to this show. “The Fox on the Fairway” is a comedic play written by Ken Ludwig in 2010, set against the backdrop of an annual golf tournament between two rival clubs.
Our night started with an early arrival to the theatre so we could upgrade seats if possible. Our seats were already wonderful but my brother in law still placed our names in for an upgrade if someone didn’t show up. Dinner started around 6:00 p.m. with salads, drinks and continued on to an amazing menu of tender BBQ Pork Tenderloin, Garlic mashed potatoes, fresh green beans, baby carrots in a brown sugar glaze, buffalo chicken and more. Later we were able to get dessert during the intermission and the Crème Brule was the best I have ever had! After dinner and visiting we were informed we could move to a better seat. It was directly center of the stage and had the best view in the place. I was tickled. Soon the lights went down for our five-minute warning and we were off….
Jim Korinke played Bingham, the Quail Valley president who believes this year is his clubs year to win. Playing the rival Crouching Squirrel president (Dickie) was Mark Robbins. The two men decide to place a hefty wager on who will win this year’s tournament. Dyan Cannon plays (the Bad Guy) Dickie’s Ex-Wife who is willing to help Bingham beat her Ex-husband at all costs. I am not a theatre reviewer and won’t be able to really do this play any justice but, there are classic mishaps, a parental surprise and in the end, lots of love. Others in the play were Melinda MacDonald and Mark Robbins who were also fabulous.
While it was hard to depict a golf tournament on stage, they nailed it for me. I loved the music, the set, the actors, the story, EVERYTHING. I loved it! I did kind of hate the audience who didn’t give a standing ovation. (Sigh) and there were a lot of whispers during the show. While some of the whispers echoed my own thoughts, it was rude as hell.
What were the whispers about? Miss Cannon who at 76 sported some outfits, that on my skinniest day at 30 I couldn’t get away with. Her first dress was so tight she had a hard time moving her legs. She followed it up with one where we could see her butt cheeks and another that showed of her toned stomach. Every single outfit complimented her mile high heels. I was so nervous she would fall. She didn’t though. She was amazing. It was all too easy for me to forget her age. She looked amazing! My lord, if I can even wear heels at 50 I will celebrate, but heels and belly baring tops….that deserves an award! She was sexy as ever and so much fun to watch. I don’t think my eyes ever left her. I was so in awe of this woman. As soon as she walked out on stage the atmosphere changed. It was electric.
During the intermission I looked around at the people who surrounded us. Here we are, 27, 29, 30 & 37 years old. We were the youngest by about 30 years. These people are sitting around remembering her from TV or from seeing Bob & Carol & Ted & Alice when it first came out. Then you have us. I’m sure people were wondering if we even knew who Dyan Cannon was. I wanted to pull her book out of my purse and yell, “yes I know her, look I have her book with me right now, do you?!”
What I have learned as a classic film fan is, we all feel entitled. Don’t get me wrong! It’s not like we feel like we are better than anyone. We just feel like, Cary Grant, well he is ours. He is mine. I know him better than anyone because I have read so much and seen so much, you don’t even know. Bogart, he is mine for the same reasons. I know deep down I like him better than anyone else ever has.
It was the same with Dyan Cannon. She was mine. I appreciated her more than anyone; I was there because of her and not because of the play. My sister and Bro-lo bought me my ticket because of her. Sounds insane but we all have something. A band, a football/baseball team or player, whatever. Mine is classic film stars and their “people.”
Once the play was over it went from amazing to “IM GOING TO TOTALLY LOOSE MY SHIT!”
And, I did.
The cast bowed, we clapped and it was over.
There she stood alone on stage. What would she say, what would she do?
First she thanked us for being a great audience. (You’re so welcome!) Then she said she really liked the people in Kansas, and we were all so nice (Yes, I’m taking credit for Kansan’s being nice) and how she would be back to KC because it was so great. Then it happened…….
A Cary Grant story. As soon as she mentioned Cary Grant the only sound I heard was myself in my head screaming hysterically. Have I ever mentioned I am a little insane?
She said she accompanied him to Jamaica while he filmed “Father Goose” During one of Cary’s afternoons off they went to the beach to “play” As Cary swam and Dyan sat on the beach, she heard him screaming in pain. She started to go in after him but he told her not to get in. He screamed in pain all the way to the sand. She asked him what happened and he told her it was a Sea Urchin. His leg was aflame with spines of the Urchin. She was a little startled by his screams. When they got inside the maid came running in and whispered to Dyan “Only one cure for that, you got to make water on the sting” “You know, go to the bathroom on it” “I have to pee on his leg” Dyan yelled? She yelled at Cary to go into the bathroom because the maid had told her how to fix it. She told him to put his leg in the tub. After some back and forth she dropped her pants and straddled his leg. She said she couldn’t believe she was about to pee on the leg of the biggest movie star in the world.
After a few tries she was able to do it and it worked. She said Cary said “I never thought Id thank anyone for taking a piss on me, but right now it seems like about the nicest thing anybody’s ever done for me, thank you” And that was the story about how she peed on Cary Grant. It was pretty much the most awesome thing ever. She talked a bit longer about her book and Cary and was off.
I grabbed my purse and told Brian we had to go around to the stage door. We were pretty sure there would be no way we could meet her but, if we didn’t try I would regret it. My sister and bro-lo went to the bathroom while Brian and I practically ran outside. We found the stage door and waited. The main male actor walked out and we chatted with him. He asked if we were waiting for Dyan and I confessed that we were. He told us to go on inside.
Brian and I didn’t argue, we went on in and stood. The security guard started down the hall for us and I knew we were cooked. He told us to come on in a bit further to keep warm. Was this seriously happening? Was she going out another door and they took one look at my crazy eyes and steered me over to someone else’s door until she left? Brian seriously thought that is what they had done and I was also starting to question it. This was too easy! Finally my sister and brother in law joined us and we waited.
My hands were shaking, my mouth went dry and I was fighting the nervous farts. To put it bluntly I was a wreck.
The door opened and there she was. All 75 lbs of her. She had worn a wig for the play and now I saw her trademark hair. The next few minutes were a blur. I think I told her I wanted a photo with her. Brian took my phone and started snapping. She put her arm around me. He hand was on my shoulder. I kept telling myself to calm down. Don’t pass out. Stop being “that girl.” Try as I might, I was a total moron. The flash on my camera wasn’t working so I had to fix that and apologize. Poor Dyan Cannon was waiting on me. This freak fan that can’t get her shit together is holding Ms. Cannon up! I knew she hated me. She had her two dogs, little Chihuahuas. My sister and brother in law were petting and discussing these dogs with Dyan Cannon. What was I doing? Probably a lot of this
She told a story about how when she was a kid her fantasy was a man coming out of the ocean on a horse and scooping her up and taking her off to live happily ever after. She said when she hosted SNL they had Chevy Chase (in his sexy years) on a horse to scoop her up and take her off the stage at the end of the show. The hose pooped as they exited. How cool would it be to have stories like that?
Crazy eyes I tell you.
The entire time this interaction is going on I am holding her book and a Sharpie. I was so nerdy I didn’t ask her to autograph my book. I even held it while we took pictures. What the hell Nikki? She talked a bit while I fan girl gazed at her not hearing one thing she said. We said our goodbyes and walked out the door. (I may have to ask my sister, bro-lo and Brian what all was said and add it later)
My sister was scared backing out that she would run over one of Dyan Cannon’s dogs. We laughed about how horrid that would be and headed back to the hotel. On the way I don’t know what they talked about because I had to start sending out our photo. Red eyes and all. My face looked so bad! I had the dreaded “Sam Keller Smile”
What is that? Well, a few years ago I met one of my favorite Husker football players. He was an okay player but he was funny and super sexy. Brian took our photo together. Have you seen that one floating around Facebook or Twitter? Nope. Why? Because I looked like a freak. I swear I get bloated, red and sweaty when I meet someone even a tiny bit famous. I nerd out. So, yet again I had the “Sam Keller smile” this time it was a bit more under control. I didn’t have a rogue tooth sticking out of my closed mouth smile, I was wearing a dress and my wandering eye was mostly in check. I didn’t care though, it was Dyan Freaking Cannon. If you are ever with me when I meet someone famous, point a camera at me. I can go from normal to freak in a hot second. Then tell me not to “Sam Keller Smile” and keep my shit together. Brian has promised next time he will remind me. He’d better!
We made our way down to Power and Light for some drinks, dancing and people watching. I know Brian, Cori and Heath needed it. Me? I was on a natural high. No amount of liquor, music or dancing was needed. My night was made. I can’t thank my sister and brother in law enough for taking us, going with us and letting me totally geek out. It was one of the best weekends EVER! THANK YOU THANK YOU THANK YOU!!!!!
I know I will talk about it for years and I’m so glad they were a part of this new favorite story.
I still had a few beers downtown and a wonderful time but I was on cloud nine.
I will let you know when I return to earth.
Thanks Nerds. I Love you.
For me, there are three actors who were robbed of very deserved Oscars, robbed I tell you!
Cary Grant (for nearly any film he was in) Humphrey Bogart (For Treasure of the Sierra Madre, The Petrified Forest or Casablanca) and Mr. Claude Rains for Mr. Skeffington.
I came upon this film late one night and being a larger than life Claude Rains fan I decided to stay up till nearly 3 a.m. on a work night to watch it. This film left me in tears. Claude Rains performance was perfect in every single way.
Mr. Skeffington takes place in New York City at the beginning of 1914. Bette Davis plays “Fanny” Trellis, a beautiful, highly self-absorbed woman, who is always surrounded by men willing and wanting to court her. She “plays” them and toys with them, never really interested in them. Claude Rains plays Job Skeffington, a wealthy NY stock broker who falls madly in love with Fanny.
When Fanny finds out that her brother Trippy stole a great deal of money from his employer and lost it at the race track, she starts to court his employer Mr. Skeffington. Fanny and her brother are living on no income and are near bankrupt and have no way to pay the money back, thus leading to her actions towards Mr. Skeffington. Soon they are married and her brother Trippy is highly upset with the marriage. Trippy ends up leaving for the army in France and soon dies in combat. Fanny blames her marriage to Mr. Skeffington as the reason her brother has died. Fanny finds out she is pregnant and her reaction is “Soon, I will be swollen, puffy and ugly.” She leaves for California to have her baby away from the people who know her in NY Society.
Soon after these series of events, she starts to go out nightly with a gangster who sets up a date so she can find her husband in the company of another woman. This leads to her divorcing Mr. Skeffington. He moves with their daughter to Europe during the World War. Years later her daughter returns home and beautiful young lady. The same day Fanny goes on a sailing trip with a younger beau and is diagnosed with diphtheria. This leaves her looking haggard and old. A cold punishment for a woman who has been obsessed with her own looks her entire life. Her daughter runs off to marry her mother’s younger beau and Mr. Skeffington returns to NY after surviving a concentration camp. She refuses to see him but, he is now blind and penniless. He needs and still loves her. Finally Fanny realizes that the looks are not everything in life.
What is it about this performance I regard so highly? It is Claude Rains’ ability to be stepped on and still show such grace and strength. His heart was constantly toyed with. You can see the pain in his eyes get more constant and deeper throughout the film. I admit, I cry during many films and this one always gets me. He is such a devoted husband and father putting up with Fanny’s constant need for male attention. He still loves her throughout this film. In the end when he is broken, and blind his emotion is intense and heartbreaking. I am so reminded of Lon Chaney’s performance in The Unknown The raw emotion, hurt eyes, powerful performance just sticks with me every time. He so deserved an Oscar for his performance. Hearing Robert Osborne tell of the others considered for this part such as Paul Henried makes me scratch my head. I could easily imagine others in the role of Fanny, but not Job. I feel it was one of the roles that Rains was born to play.
1945 Best Supporting Actor Category
WINNER: Barry Fitzgerald for Going My Way
Nominees: Claude Rains, Clifton Webb for Laura, Monty Woolley for Since You Went Away.
While I have not seen Any of these other films, I have my forever favorite with Claude Rains. His performance in Mr. Skeffington will forever be one of my favorites and I hope, one of yours as well.
I wrote this Blog for the 31 Days of Oscar Blog-A-Thon. Thanks Ladies for hosting! Sorry It isn’t as long as I would have hoped but, with the impending snowtacular, I’ve been piled under work all week.
I am so excited to join Aurora (@CitizenScreen) of Once Upon a Screen, Paula (@Paula_Guthat) of Paula’s Cinema Club and I aka Kellee
(@IrishJayhawk66) of Outspoken and Freckled for the 2013 31 Days of Oscar Blogathon.
I am still working on what I will write about, but I am thrilled to be a part of it.
Another awesome thing to keep an eye out for is the Kansas Silent Film Festival in late February. I already have my hotel booked and weather permitting, I plan on attending. So, join me on Twitter @nikkilynn4 for updates on what’s happening in real time. I hope to see you there!
Monday, August 22, 2011
Nothing ever possibly in the least ever happens here. Mother, how do you get smallpox?
|THE BIRDS & HITCH = Awesomeness.|
|Yep, I went there. I had to pose with everyone in front of the Marquee.|
|I SOOOOOOO LOVE THEM FOR GOING!|
|I want this.|
|I nearly cried I was so happy.|
After the movie, we went out to eat. I found a place that serves Moose Drool on tap.
I was 2 for 2 and everything was coming up Milhouse for me.
|The greatest beer on earth, Moose Drool.|
|BBQ & Bacon Burger. HMFS!!!!|
|Yep, had to go back at night. It was awesome!|
|Oh, just for fun. This a VERY REAL screen shot of my phone. I love it.|
|How can you have a bad weekend when this is what you see at the beginning of it?|
|The Sista with one of the many great artistic “deals” around the theater.|
Monday, June 13, 2011
If I had a million dollars…..
…..I would do some really dumb ass things. I’m not talking the college money for the kids, health insurance, new house, car, trips, etc. kind of splurge I’m talking a serious splurge. What would you buy?
Chatting with my friend Angie over at The Hollywood Revue made me wish I had this unlimited amount of money to spend on the Debbie Reynolds Auction. Some of you will sadly say, who is Debbie Reynolds?
Well, If I had a million dollars I would go through this catalog of classic movie memorabilia and buy so much. This is a short list of what I would choose.
1) Any and all of the old camera equipt.
2) The Valentino Costumes
3) The Harold Lloyd Suit FOR SURE!
4) Pickfords personal hats and trunks. I would wear a hat every day!
5) The Chaplin hat which is crazy expensive and overpriced in my opinion!
6) The Carole Lombard dress, which I would probably have the money for the lipo to wear that dress.
Yes I would wear some of this stuff, its so beautiful. I know that is TERRIBLE and shouldn’t be done but, i wouldn’t be able to resist!
7) All Katie Hepburn Dresses! All Colbert Dresses!
9) Garbo’s Anna Karenina Dress.
10) Oh, The Marion Davies Paintings! What an amazing find!!! I know exactly where in my house they would look best!
11) All Norma Shearer Stuff, naturally!
12) All furniture.
13) The Clark Gable Robe that I would sleep with every night. ahhh…
14) Viven Leigh’s suit from Waterloo Bridge.
15) The Claude Raines Suit.
16) Paul Henreid’s shirt from Now Voyager
17) Edward G. Robinson’s personal items
18) All Mildred Pierce stuff!
19) Cukor’s personal robe and stuff.
20) Both Peacock gowns!
21) All Ginger Rogers Stuff
22) Everything from singing in the rain.
23) The Lauren Bacall Wedding gown.
24) All Mogambo stuff.
25) Every thing To Catch a Thief.
26) Everything from An Affair to Remember
27 The Penalty lobby card
28) The Harold Lloyd Poster
29) The Jean Harlow Portrait
I am more than sure this stuff would wildly exceed my million dollars but, I would also purchase every pirated classic film not officially released on DVD as well as every DVD in the TCM collection. On top of all of this, I would pay Robert Osborne allot of mula to introduce each film to me in a personalized introduction. HELLO NERD!
Lastly I have try to build up my own little collection of classic film stuff.
This has come from over 5 years of scrimping penny’s and writing classic film stars. It hasn’t amounted to much but, someday I hope to share my collection and love of classic films with a kindred spirit. I don’t know if that will be Alex, Lucy, Madion, Emma, Rylee, Payten…any of these sweet angels. I don’t know, I just hope one of them shares my love and carries on my collection.
Haven’t you heard the news? I’m a gentleman now!
15 Movie Questions
1. Movie you love with a passion.
Hands down, no contest The Philadelphia Story. It is the closest thing in my book to the perfect cast and story. You have a bit of drama, comedy, love, everything! If you dont know anything about this film and are watching it for the first time, you really wouldnt know who Katharine Hepburn will choose. Sweet Jimmy Stewart or Sexy Cary Grant. Ahhh…such an amazing film!!!
2. Movie you vow to never watch.
3. Movie that literally left you speechless.
There is a tie there. “The world, the Flesh and the Devil” is one. Its a heart breaking film about a woman left alone on earth with the oh so sexy Harry Belefonte and Mel Ferrer, tensions rise between the three, particularly between Thacker, who is white and Burton, who is black.
And ON THE BEACH, with Ava Gardner and Gregory Peck. WWII has devastated the northern hemisphere, polluting the atmosphere with nuclear fall out and killing all life. While the bombs were confined to the northern hemisphere, air currents are slowly carrying the fallout to south. The only areas still habitable are in the far southern hemisphere, like Australia. Peck is a Navy man who comes up in Australia and falls for Ava after learning his wife and family has died. Its a very depressing, movie because eventually everyone will die.
She was in so many wonderful films that I hadn’t even put together!! Great great read!!!
Originally posted on Once upon a screen...:
Born in Brooklyn, New York on St. Valentine’s Day in 1905, Thelma Ritter was doing stock company bit parts around New York even before finishing high school. Thelma later trained at the American Academy of Dramatic Arts and worked for 14 years on stage, mostly in New England stock companies. She worked on radio for much of the 1940s, would go on to win a Tony Award for Best Actress in a musical in 1958 for “New Girl in Town,” would receive six Academy Award nominations, all for Best Supporting Actress and received an EMMY nomination in the same category for a “Goodyear Playhouse” 1951 version of “The Catered Affair.” Thelma Ritter was the epitome of what I consider a “working actress,” both because she continued to work in several mediums while gaining accolades in film and because of the “down to Earth,” everywoman persona she portrayed throughout her screen career. She remains one of my favorites, here’s a look…